Gambling is a popular activity for many people, but some people become too seriously involved in terms of time invested and money spent. These people experience gambling-related harm that may have significant personal, social, and family consequences. Those who are addicted to gambling often continue to gamble, even when they feel like they are losing control. The addiction to gambling can lead to increased risk taking behaviours and higher levels of debt. It can also affect relationships, employment, and other activities, such as hobbies or education.
It is important to recognise the signs that you or someone you know has a problem with gambling and to seek help. You can talk about the issue with a trusted family member, friend or professional counsellor who can support you. If you decide to approach someone about their gambling habits, it is important to do so in a way that doesn’t create more conflict or anger. Criticising or belittling them will only serve to alienate them and make them more resistant to talking about the problem.
Despite the fact that most gamblers enjoy their activity and don’t experience serious problems, the majority of gambling profits are generated by a small group of heavy gamblers. These people are often referred to as high rollers, VIPs or frequenters. The large amounts of money that they stake on a regular basis are attractive to gambling operators and other vested interests, who advertise and promote their services. This marketing encourages more and more people to gamble, which leads to increased profits for the companies and states that regulate gambling. It also increases the amount of public money that is being used to pay for gambling-related harm, creating two vicious cycles.
There is a common perception that the odds are in favour of the house, but this is not necessarily true. There are a number of psychological and emotional reasons why people gamble, including a desire for hope. The flicker of possibility, the thrill of the unknown, can be very appealing to people who feel like they are being punished or controlled by a fast-paced and judgmental society. For these individuals, gambling provides a brief sense of self-enhancement and the deep human need to feel ‘chosen’.
Many people who gamble do not realise that they have a problem until they reach a crisis point that they cannot resolve on their own. This can include financial issues, such as being unable to pay bills or credit card debts. Sometimes, it can even lead to stealing or borrowing from loved ones. These kinds of situations can be very difficult to manage and can cause immense stress and hurt to the person involved. Attempts to stop gambling can be successful by strengthening support networks, engaging in alternative recreational and social activities, or seeking help from a peer support organisation such as Gamblers Anonymous.